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Most people achieved their greatest successes one step beyond what looked like their greatest failure.

Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing. Experience comes with commitments in whatever you're doing, you can't just sleep, wake up and you say you experience of something, No! It doesn't work that way, you need to start doing something, that where your experience lies. Experience they say it's the best teacher, it's not everything you learn with words, or what you see your master, tutor or teacher do that makes you grate in life, most likely those experiences they have it's what they are using to lecture you to become a better person, but you have to develop on your own, don't base all you know in what you've been taught. Develop yourself to be better than your teacher, model, lecturer, or mentor. Remember experience comes with doing! Be hard working... 

People who love you for who you are, rather than what you can do for them are the Best kind of people, your life is a reflection of your thoughts. Think well!

Nothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide. The decisions you we make is the foundation where we are building our lives, at any point in time of your life, try to make the right decisions, don't allow people to push you in doing what they like or what they want you to do, don't do things that is against your will. Nevertheless! It is difficult to decide, but it's easy to make a wish. Until you stand by those words you have said, and start acting according to the decisions you have made, then you are a step ahead in achieving your dreams and goals, remove yourself from the organization of wishers, start working towards your dreams and goals. Secondly decisions precious, only wise people stand by their decisions, I know you're wise that's why you're reading this, and wise people always make the right decisions, even though sometimes they will be afraid not to make mistakes, but making a mistake does not make yo...

One of the most important things one can do in life is to brutally question every single thing you are taught.

Confident walking is more successful than confused running, follow no one but learn from everyone. Everyone on the streets are hustling, some work in an Air-conditioned offices, some as an entrepreneur, business owners, self boss, men and women doing one thing or the other. It good to be doing something, it's not good to be a lazy man or woman, house wife or house husband. But one thing I want to bring out is this, how do you manage the resources you have, your income on a daily, weekly, monthly basis, some annually, do you spend all at the end, if you are not saving you are working for nothing, you're are running a confused race. Racing has rules that guards it, you cannot woke and start running, you must have a direction, destination, must important is time, it are not there at the set out end point, you lose the race. Learn to start saving today, if their pay can't pay your bills, let it go, some of us are afraid of losing their job, how will you be worki...

Pretty words are not always true and true words are not always pretty.

Fools live to regret their words, the wise regret their silence. This life is it, if are not wise, then your are unwise. Unwise people end up regretting their words, actions, mistakes, their flaws, what the would have done if the knew what was come, if the new what was coming. Then we say this person is unwise. Wise people also life in regret, they even regret more than the unwise, those we see as fools, a wise man regret those things he would have done he didn't do, the words of advice, encouragement he kept unsaid, he will say had I know, I would said or do it the other way around. Sometimes you will the correct answers to the question asked, but you choose silence as your answer, at the end is regret. Let's try to live our lives without regrets, try to make the right dissections at all times.

My failure gave me strength, my pain was my motivation.

Ideas are wealth in disguise, don't allow someone to yours without paying.

A man of purpose focuses on his destination, not his situation. Don't let your situation mislead you! Focus is a driving force a man with focus dose not following crows, he knows what he wants to achieve, he has already set his goals, his eyes is on his final destination. There is two kinds of people or two set of humans on a journey of life, people that make things happen and people that watch things happen, a man of purpose focuses on his destination, he focuses on his set out target, his goals, his not a man who is easily discouraged by what is around him, he does not allow his situations, conditions, obstacles of life make him lose focus on his destination. Today, I urge you to be that man, be a man with purpose, Focus on your destination, don't allow anything discourage you, some people, even your close friends and family could try to discourage you, but know that when you're dreaming your dream, nobody is there with you, only you know what you want to ac...

Our life is just a mirror to our thoughts and beliefs, that is the rule and that's how it goes. If you are unhappy and unsatisfied with your life. You intend to ask questions . Six Beliefs that set the Course of your Life: If you don’t believe the impossible can happen, then you are right. When you feel like you are less than others, then you are right. When you believe what you have and how you were raised keeps you from having everything you ever dreamed of, you are right. When you believe your mistakes can’t be undone, you are right. When you feel this is the best it is going to get, you are right. When you think someone will never change or rise above their brokenness, you are Wrong! Life is to you, how you see it to be.   -W ealthy Kingsley  If you wonder and ask yourself: Why this is happening to me? I don’t deserve this. What is it that is left for me to do? How can this change? I want to CHANGE this. The only solution you have is to work on y...

The difference between Here and There is 'T' and it stands for Time. Believe you will get there one day with 'T' that is Time.  Time is all you need to get to where you are heading too, and this words is for someone who knows where he/she is going, not somebody who is following the multitude, first you have to desired on where you want to go, what you want to do in life, after you have carried out this inner assessment, then you are limitless. First you have make up your mind on what to do, then the next step is how do want it to be done, if it's a building for example, before you start building or laying a foundation of a structure, the contractor in charge of the work will first of all present what we call building plan, then he will start laying foundation base on the plan, how the structure will be after it has been completed. This also apply to our day to days activities, some of us live ourselves with plan, we live on what the day brings, I tell ...

Your happiness shouldn't come from looking Good, but from doing Good. One thing is sure, after you have gone, people will only remember you deeds, not how good you look.

Obstacles can't stop you. Problems can't stop you. Most of all people can't stop you. Only you can stop you. The only person that has the ability and capacity of stopping you, is you. Nobody else can stop you from whatever you have made up your mind to do. You're unstoppable, you're unlimited in anywhere. You have to develop a right motive of mindset that you're not limited to where you're, you're not limited to what your are doing at the moment, what you've achieved now is not what you're limited to achieve, you can achieve more and more greatness in life, keep believing in yourself, believe you can achieve your goals and make your dreams become realities. The reason why some people find it difficult to excel in life is the fear of failure, when you overcome your fear, you're one step ahead to achieve greatness in life. Failure is not the worst thing that could help to you, the worst of it is not starting all over again, tryi...

Kindness is never wasted. No matter how small your deed is. Do good always! Always do the right things at all time, cast your bread upon many waters, spread your seeds, extended a helping hand to someone or some people, visit the motherless, help the widow, no amount of kindness is too small, and it's not wasted. Know this, you can show kindness in several ways, you can give your time, your advice and words of encouragement, helping someone in one way or the other, when you see someone who has a breakdown on the way, if you can help fix the problem or you know someone in the area who can help, contact the person, whatever you can do to extend kindness to someone do it. Surly, God will surely reward you, when showing kindness, take your eyes off in receiving prize from the fellow back, focus on God, He is the one who will reward your kindness is a very special way. Don't help people to get something in return from them, don't show kindness to only people who...

Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full. Text: John 16:24 Please do read the chapter and bring on your questions and comments. This direct statement from our Lord Jesus Christ opens up to us the great secret behind praying and asking God for things in the name of Christ. We can not do without asking as children of the kingdom, more so that we are commanded to ask that we may receive. However, our receiving is not based on our asking alone but in whose name we ask. Jesus noted that as long as he was physically present with His disciples they have no reason to ask the father anything in His name. After all He is to receive a name above all names by which all knees will bow and tongue confess only when He's been to the cross, resurrected from the dead and gone to be with the father. Beloved, Christ has fulfilled this criteria, He has earned that name and willed the name to us. Now we have the mandat...

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. Successful people doesn't give up easily, they keep pressing harder, they have the mindset that come rain come sun, I will succeed in this that I am doing, this project must be completed, this innovation must change the community. Our weaknesses is giving up after we have tried some many times or applied so many theories, used different methods, still we are getting the same results, we're still unsuccessful. But I tell you, never to give, you will succeed one day. Over the years, I haven't seen people who give up easily succeed. Never give up! Share with friends! If you find this article Educative and would like your friends to read this as well. Hit the Share Button! Follow us on our Social Networks.

Sometimes, the best way to keep and retain what we love the most, is to be ready to let go off it first; if it comes back to you, it was meant to be yours, but if it doesn't, then it was never meant to be. This quote can't be less relevant in the baby days of Moses, Israel first prophet and priest. He was born at the time when the Israelites were still in slavery in Egypt, and there was a decree by King Pharaoh that every  male child of Hebrews women (Israelites) should be killed at birth or drowned after birth. He saw the increasing number of the son's of Israel as a threat to him in the latter days, as he perceived that they may become freedom fighter for their people in time to come. Moses as newly born baby then was not to be left out, and his mother just like the other Hebrew women, didn't want to lose their sons, in her own case. She tried to hide him from the nose of the Egyptians, under chances for three months. For the three months, as everyday...

Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud. This quote 'Try to be a rainbow 🌈 in someone's cloud ☁' you will be asking how will I be a rainbow in someone's cloud, after rain what comes up is rainbow, what that means is you could be the new dawn in someone's life, after he/she has passed through some difficulties and challenges of this life. Then you step in a try to make him/her start all over again. The downfall of a man is not the end of him, be refusing to rise is the end of him. Life is filled with ups and down, don't allow what you are going through overwhelm you, know that after the rain comes the rainbow, then a new day is up, forget about the mischief, unfavourable conditions you have been through, it's never to late to start allover again, since there is life there is hope. Try to be encouraging, helping, advising, hope to the hopeless, when you see someone thinking that the end of his/her life has come, that there is no way t...